Coming Together As A Community To Prevent Underage Substance Use
We’re proud to partner with Marin Prevention Network to bring you the BTI Toolkit, your go-to resource for keeping your home a safe and substance-free space for teens. Created to help parents follow Marin County’s various Social Host Ordinances and foster homes where teens can thrive. We know this work is so much more impactful when our entire community comes together. So let’s dive in and take the first step toward a healthier future for our teens.
Understanding Your Role
Social Host Ordinance (SHO) holds hosts responsible when two or more minors possess or consume alcohol, marijuana, or other drugs on their property. (Adults and teens over 18 can both be held responsible.) In Marin County, violations can result in a civil fine of $750–$2,500, or criminal charges if other offenses are involved.
The Research
Research shows that limiting access to substances significantly reduces underage use and its risks. This section highlights key findings, best practices, and simple, effective actions you can take to help protect kids. With the right knowledge and small changes, parents, educators, and communities can create a safer, healthier future for youth.
Myth-Busters and Scripts
Parents play a powerful role in shaping kids' choices about substances, but talking with other families can be daunting. Our simple scripts help you set boundaries, share expectations, and collaborate for safer, substance-free experiences. Together, we can build a network of informed parents committed to healthier futures.
The Importance of Delaying
Kids need our help delaying their first-time use. The graph to the right shows the percentage of US adults dependent on alcohol based on the age they began drinking.
The Ask
The Be The Influence Pledge encourages parents to make a pledge to keep their homes a safe and substance-free space for teens. The ask is simple. (1) Never provide substances to minors. (2) Do not allow substance use in your home, and (3) Actively supervise teen gatherings.
Talking to Your Teen
Talking about substance use isn’t easy. Your child may try to avoid the discussion, and you might feel unsure how to proceed. But avoiding it isn’t the answer. Kids who talk with their parents about substance use are up to 50% less likely to use substances. These conversations can also reduce the likelihood of needing professional help later. So start the conversation when the time feels right—and keep it going!
BTI Party Guide
Hosting a party should be fun, but safety is key. Allowing underage drinking or substance use can lead to fines, lawsuits, and criminal charges under Social Host Ordinances. Whether at your home or a rented venue, setting clear boundaries and maintaining a substance-free environment ensures a safe and enjoyable event for all.